Let us take you through the process of how to pick up women.
Approach
The first step in meeting new women and ultimately picking up girls is to approach them and initiate conversation. It may sound obvious but it is by far the biggest reason most guys don’t succeed – it is easier just not to try.
When approaching a woman for the first time it is valuable to be able to operate outside your comfort zone and to know how to guide a conversation.
You want to appear interesting with a sense of mystery while making initial contact. Let me say that again: you want to appear interesting with a sense of mystery. No where in there did it say creepy.
Use a quick and simple ice breaker to initiate conversation, build a little value while guiding the conversation, then ask for her phone number.
Getting the digits
How to ask a girl for her number is a big part of how to pick up women. Hopefully you had an approach that was interesting and intriguing enough that you don’t need to put up a fight for the phone number.
As a rule of thumb you will want to inquire in a way that creates a harmless scenario, ie. “I would love to grab a cup of coffee or a drink sometime if I could get your phone number.” Also, you will want to be assumptive by pulling out your phone and expecting her to give you her number. Your confidence will be noticed.
It helps if you add a sense of urgency to things by telling her you have to run to meet someone or you are late for something important. By doing this before you ask for her number she will feel as if she has to give it up or risk never seeing you again.
Congratulations, by many definitions, you’ve now successfully “picked up.”
Setting the Date
Assuming you don’t collect telephone numbers as a hobby, I’m guessing you will want to do something with your newly acquired numerical information.
If possible, don’t set the first date in person. Asking for a date during your initial conversation can be an easy way in losing the chance altogether as you are asking for a firm commitment. When you acquired the phone number, exit promptly and follow up later.
Knowing what to do with a woman’s phone number is also important when learning how to pick up girls. An easy and very acceptable way to setup a future rendezvous is via text message. You can follow up your initial conversation with a friendly text message and then only text again when you want to setup a same day or next day date.
What to do for the date
Depending on your end game, your first date idea will vary. Assuming you are dating casually and not looking for a long-term commitment I recommend something that involves physical movement such as walking. Inviting her to your place is another good option, and both of these will save your wallet in the long run.
