Being able to carry a great conversation is extremely important in all aspects of life – not just in your love life. That said, of course it is also a great skill to have when trying to meet new women.
A woman loves a guy who is able to handle their own, verbally, but having a great conversation doesn’t mean talking a mile a minute to make sure it doesn’t go flat.
Teach yourself and practice the following conversation tips and you will not only feel more confident in conversations, you will grab the attention of all the women you talk to.
1. Listen.
Listen carefully and avoid all distractions. If you are alone with someone, make sure you turn off your phone or put it on silent. Giving them your full attention not only shows respect, but allows you to engage them better in conversation.
2. Guide the conversation with questions.
Women love to talk – especially about things that they are really passionate about. Consider yourself the conversation facilitator and guide the conversation with specific questions based on what they are talking about.
For example, if a woman just finished explaining how she grew up in Halifax, ask her what it was like to experience the rush of students every year while growing up – she likely has some interesting stories. Of course, it is only possible to do this if you are listening to her stories.
3. Fuel the fire.
Although you will want to do more listening than talking, it is important to add some discussion to the conversation. This can be done by adding a personal twist on something before moving the conversation.
Example: “I could only imagine how living through the students moving in every year must have been. I’ve only been in the city for 3 years and already notice the high level of emotion that the start of September brings to the city. Not to mention I once had to help carry a couch on my back for 5 blocks.”
4. Avoid certain topics.
Work is typically boring, so unless it has been brought up already avoid bringing it up. If you are asked about what you do for work, address it quickly and guide the conversation in another direction. No matter how exciting you think think balancing the company’s books are, it is not going to build sexual attraction. I guarantee that.
Women love to talk about past relationships, and it also creates a sense of sexuality.
Avoid controversial topics such as religion or politics, at least during the first encounter. Also, avoid topics like technology and science in which you have a high degree of knowledge (if you do). Although you may not mean to, it can easily ruin the conversation with a condescending tone.
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